Change Your Thoughts

change your thoughts

change your thoughts

I read a Casey Research article the other day about how the energy of laughing is so good for us.

You may have heard of laughing clubs and laughter yoga, which are based on the concept that laughter decreases stress and helps promote wellbeing physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Article author David Galland, Managing Director of Casey Research, describes his experience at a laughter event where the hosts demonstrated the importance of filling our thoughts and minds with good thoughts via the “garbage in, garbage out” concept.

Event organizers played clips of a comedy until everyone was rolling with laughter, then they played the first scene of Saving Private Ryan, which showed the devastation experienced by soldiers in the first wave of the invasion of Normandy. As attendees watched the brutal war scenes, the mood in the room shifted downward rapidly. Mr. Galland writes:

One minute, having just seen the comedic clip, I remember feeling light and happy, the world full of promise and posies and all that, and the next, feeling deeply sad, all the light sucked from the room, as well as one’s very soul.

The point was made, and made well, namely that we are what we think about – and what we think about is hugely influenced by the stimuli we expose ourselves to. Maybe depressed people don’t gravitate to depressing books and movies – but are actually depressed by their choice of media. … Just a thought.

That same day I read a similar message in Wayne Dyer’s book Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life. This book is based on his yearlong study of the Chinese classic text Tao Te Ching by philosopher Lao Tzu.

In Dyer’s exploration of the thirtieth verse of the Tao, which he titles “living without force,” he quotes the verse, shares his understanding of it, and closes with a paragraph titled “Do the Tao Now.”

In the thirtieth verse Lao Tzu writes that we must not battle but endeavor to prevent conflicts and war, and Dyer’s “Do the Tao Now” reads:

In line with altering the way you look at the world, today change every television channel and radio station that presents an image or audio of the use of force or violence. Then increase that “no tolerance” policy to include movies, videos, and games that have beating, homicides, and chase scenes.

I did this years ago because I cannot bear to watch anything with violence or anything scary. I always felt I was a coward, but now I am finding it was my spirit taking care of me. According to the Academy Awards I miss a lot of “great” movies, but what I don’t miss is the feeling I get from watching anything negative.

I don’t listen to loud, jarring music either. My ears and body are sensitive to harsh sounds; I cannot physically do it. I once saw pictures of what heavy metal music does to water molecules, and I was amazed how depressive that music is and how it disorganizes the energy field.

Since we are made up of about 60 percent water, and since our brains are made up of about 70 percent water, it only makes sense to bring into the body vibrations that support rather than hinder us. You can see for yourself by checking out the video on The Work of Masaru Emoto.

When I saw both of these messages in one day I thought it was time to write about the importance of being aware that what we put into our bodies through our mouths, ears and eyes has an immense impact on who we are and how we feel.

If this resonates with you, maybe you want to turn off the TV programs that celebrate our lesser natures and turn to something more edifying, like laughter.

I’m not asking you to deny the way things are, or to ignore what is going on, but I believe that if more of us turn to light and laughter, fewer of us are likely to turn to war, murder, mayhem and destruction. Wouldn’t that be awesome, to be part of building a world dedicated to peace and wellbeing!

It’s all our choice and within our power. Which path are you choosing?

“‘The Kingdom of Heaven is within you’ is not an empty cliche`, it is a reality”

~Wayne Dyer

When I read these words this morning I recognized their Truth, but I also remembered a scene from my childhood when I was about 8 years old.  My Mother, an avid reader herself, had given me a book on mythology and I was devouring the book and its fabulous stories.  Of course I was immediately drawn to the tale of the goddess Diana, since her name was about as close as I was ever going to get to my own name, Diantha.  At the time I was having troubles fitting into my own name which was too big for a young girl and seemed to dismay everyone I met.  “Where on earth did that come from?”  “Is that a combination of two names?”  “What is wrong with just Diane?” and those are just some of the publishable comments!

At any rate, here I was, so excited to see my almost name of Diana in this book I was loving.  One night, my precious Grandmother who lived with us was left alone with we three girls.  I was the only possible fly in the ointment as my younger sister was only 3 and she went right to bed easily.  My older sister was 15 and able to put herself to bed, so I was the only challenge of the evening.

So there I was, having read all about Diana, Goddess of the Hunt, that afternoon and excited as can be to have seen my almost name in print!  Exuberant child that I was, I was jumping on the bed and singing all about how I was a goddess when suddenly out of nowhere my Grandmother yanked me off the bed and told me in no uncertain terms that that was definitely blasphemy and thoughts like that would lead me to the gates of hell.

I really didn’t see anything wrong with what I was saying as there was something in me even then that believed that God lives in each of us, and that yes, the Kingdom of Heaven does too.  But at that moment I realized it would be wise and certainly easier on my arm to go underground for a bit with my beliefs.

It actually took many years to come out again as a goddess!  Still, it’s always been in there bubbling, and reconnecting to that certainty has been a big part of my life’s path.  My sisters and I have occasionally had the discussion entitled “Who we would have been if anyone had encouraged us” which leads to some interesting thoughts, but wouldn’t this be a fabulous world if we were all taught the truth of Dr. Dyer’s quote above?  Imagine a world full of people living out their potential!

I suppose the lack of this happening is because we all have to come to this knowing in our own time and certainly our challenges can be guideposts to being one with Truth.  But it’s just a thought I had this morning as the sun rose over the lake, and this old memory came bobbing up to the surface of my consciousness.  I find myself chuckling over this memory and the absurdity of it but I can tell you that at age 8 I was shocked that my Grandmother did not believe in my divinity.  Not that I thought I was all that special, because I believed EVERYONE was divine in their own souls.  How I knew this I don’t know.  I just did.

I hope each one of you reading this today will pause a minute and remember that within YOU lies the Kingdom of Heaven.  And within you, everything is possible.  Have a great day!